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    Blessings Over Bullshit
  • Feb 23
  • 5 min read

Some days, life feels like a relentless storm. You wake up, and the weight of everything just presses down on you. Bills, work stress, family drama, and the endless noise of the world can drown out any sense of peace. But here’s the raw truth: even in the chaos, there are blessings. Tiny, often overlooked moments that can flip your whole day if you let them. I’m not talking about some airy-fairy, “count your blessings” cliché. I mean real, gritty, honest moments that remind you life isn’t just a shitshow. It’s about finding daily blessings and letting them fuel your positivity.


Why Finding Daily Blessings Changes Everything


You might be thinking, “Yeah, easier said than done.” Trust me, I get it. When you’re knee-deep in problems, it’s hard to see the good. But here’s the kicker - focusing on daily blessings rewires your brain. It shifts your perspective from what’s wrong to what’s right. And that shift? It’s powerful as hell.


Think about it like this: your mind is a garden. If you plant weeds (negative thoughts), you get a jungle of stress and anxiety. But if you plant flowers (blessings), you get a garden that grows hope and resilience. It’s not about ignoring the bad stuff. It’s about choosing to water the good stuff instead.


Here’s how I do it:


  • Start small: Notice the morning sun hitting your coffee cup just right.

  • Be specific: Instead of “I’m grateful for my family,” try “I’m grateful for the way my sister laughed at my dumb joke today.”

  • Write it down: Journaling daily blessings makes them stick.


This practice doesn’t erase problems, but it gives you a fighting chance to face them with a clearer, calmer mind.


Eye-level view of a steaming cup of coffee on a wooden table with morning sunlight
Morning coffee with sunlight

Practical Ways to Spot Your Daily Blessings


Okay, so you’re sold on the idea but still wondering how the hell to do it every day. Here’s the deal: blessings aren’t always big. Sometimes, they’re the small, quiet moments that slip by unnoticed. Here’s a list of practical ways to catch those moments:


  1. Pause and breathe: Take a minute during your day to just breathe and look around. What do you see? What do you hear? What feels good?

  2. Use reminders: Set a daily alarm or sticky note that says “What’s one good thing today?”

  3. Connect with nature: Even a quick walk outside can reveal blessings like fresh air, birdsong, or a cool breeze.

  4. Celebrate small wins: Did you get out of bed on a tough day? That’s a win. Did you smile at a stranger? Another win.

  5. Practice gratitude with others: Share your blessings with friends or family. It spreads positivity and deepens connections.


By making these habits part of your routine, you’re training your brain to hunt for blessings like a pro.


What are the 4 animals of God?


You might have heard about the “4 animals of God” in spiritual or religious contexts. These animals symbolize different aspects of divine presence and strength. They often represent:


  • The Lion: Courage and power.

  • The Ox: Patience and hard work.

  • The Eagle: Vision and freedom.

  • The Man: Wisdom and understanding.


These symbols remind us that blessings come in many forms - strength, patience, clarity, and insight. When you focus on daily blessings, you’re tapping into these qualities within yourself. You’re not just surviving; you’re embodying resilience and grace.


Close-up view of a lion statue symbolizing courage and strength
Lion statue representing courage

How to Keep Positivity Real When Life Sucks


Look, I’m not here to sugarcoat shit. Life can be brutal. Sometimes, it feels like the universe is throwing everything at you at once. But here’s the thing - positivity isn’t about pretending everything’s perfect. It’s about choosing to see the light even when the darkness is thick.


Here’s how I keep it real:


  • Acknowledge the pain: Don’t shove it down. Feel it, name it, and then decide you won’t let it define you.

  • Set boundaries: Protect your energy. Say no to toxic people or situations that drain you.

  • Find your tribe: Surround yourself with people who get it. People who say “fuck yeah, you got this” when you’re down.

  • Use affirmations that resonate: Not the cheesy ones, but the ones that feel like a fist bump from your soul.

  • Laugh at the absurdity: Sometimes, you just gotta laugh at how ridiculous life can be.


This isn’t about being relentlessly positive. It’s about being honestly positive. It’s about choosing blessings over bulls when the bullshit piles up.


Building a Community Around Blessings and Support


One of the most powerful things I’ve learned is that positivity grows when it’s shared. Finding daily blessings is easier when you’re not alone. That’s why spaces like blessings over bulls exist - to create a community where people can be raw, real, and resilient together.


Here’s how you can build or find your own support system:


  • Join online groups or forums that focus on encouragement and personal growth.

  • Attend local meetups or workshops that promote mental wellness and positivity.

  • Start a gratitude circle with friends or coworkers where you share daily blessings.

  • Volunteer - helping others can remind you of your own blessings.

  • Be open about your struggles - vulnerability invites connection.


When you connect with others who are also focusing on daily blessings, you create a ripple effect of hope and strength. It’s not just about surviving your own storm but helping others weather theirs too.


High angle view of a small group of people sitting in a circle sharing and supporting each other
Supportive community sharing blessings

Keep Your Eyes Open for the Unexpected


Here’s a secret: blessings often show up when you least expect them. Maybe it’s a stranger’s kindness, a moment of silence in a noisy day, or a sudden insight that changes your perspective. The trick is to keep your eyes and heart open.


Try this:


  • Be curious: Ask yourself, “What’s something good I didn’t notice before?”

  • Practice mindfulness: Stay present and fully experience each moment.

  • Celebrate the mundane: Sometimes, the blessing is just a damn good meal or a warm bed.

  • Write down surprises: Keep a “blessing log” of unexpected good things.


Life’s messy, unpredictable, and sometimes downright unfair. But if you train yourself to spot those little sparks of light, you’ll find that positivity isn’t just a fleeting feeling - it’s a way of living.



Finding daily blessings isn’t about ignoring the hard stuff. It’s about choosing to see the good in the middle of the chaos. It’s about resilience, honesty, and a hell of a lot of heart. So next time life feels like a shitstorm, remember: you have the power to find your blessings and hold onto them tight. Because sometimes, that’s all you need to keep going.

 
 
 

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